The whole week in one calendar
Add the things that happen once: the dentist, the birthday party, the spelling test. Give the event a picture and a reminder, and choose whether your child can see it.
The calendar also shows your children's routines day by day. When what's coming is visible ahead of time, there's less worry about the unexpected, especially for children with ADHD or autism.
How the calendar works
A complement to routines, for the things that don't come back every week.

With a picture, time and note
Tap New event and fill in the title, date and time, plus a note if needed. Give the event a picture from the library, your own photo or a new image with Create image, so your child recognizes it.

Remind your child, the adults or both
Turn on Reminder and choose when: at the event time, 15 minutes, 1 hour or 1 day before. You can pick several. Then choose who gets reminded: your child on their own device and the adults in the family. The reminder needs a start time.

Your children's events are visible to you both
Events for a child are visible to both parents, and both of you can change them. What you add for Me is only visible to you. The calendar also shows your children's routines, so the whole day is in one place.

In your child's own calendar
Turn on Child can see this event and it appears on your child's Calendar tab, among their routines. When your child taps the event, the picture shows up large, with the time and note.

Day by day, back in time
Scroll back to see which routines were completed, when, and how your child felt before and after. Tap a routine to see each step from that day.
Routine or event?
Routines are what repeats: every morning, every evening, every Thursday. You build them with weekdays or chosen dates.
Events are things that happen once, on a specific date: the dentist next Wednesday, the birthday party on Saturday, the spelling test on Friday. You add those to the calendar.
Why the calendar helps with ADHD and autism
Predictability eases worry
For many autistic children, unexpected events are the biggest source of stress. When your child can see for themselves that the dentist is on Wednesday, not today, much of the worry goes away.
Transitions get easier
"We're going to the dentist in an hour" lands differently depending on whether your child has seen the event before. With a picture of the event and a reminder in good time, your child can prepare at their own pace.
Your child plans ahead
Older children can check their calendar in the morning: what's happening today, what do I need to pack? It's a first step toward planning on their own.
How reminders work
- Choose one or more of: At event time, 15 min before, 1 hour before and 1 day before.
- Remind the child sends a notification to your child's own device. Your child needs to have allowed notifications there, otherwise the app warns you.
- Remind the adults in the family sends the notification to both you and your partner.
- The event must have a start time for the reminder to be sent.
- The reminder arrives even if the app is closed.
Who sees what
- Events for a child: both parents can see and change them.
- Your child sees the event in their calendar if you've turned on Child can see this event.
- Events for Me: only you.
- A temporary helper sees the children's events for the day, including the ones hidden from the child.
Tips for using the calendar
- Add things that might cause worry, like the dentist or a doctor's visit, well ahead of time so your child has time to prepare.
- Use 1 day before for big things and 1 hour or 15 minutes before for smaller ones.
- Go through the week together one evening. It can become a calm routine in itself.
- Keep an event hidden from your child if the information would only cause worry.
Limitations to know about
- The calendar only has one-time events. Anything that repeats, you build as a routine, with weekdays or chosen dates.
- A routine can't run every other week. Choose dates instead.
- There's no sync with Google Calendar or iCal. Everything stays in Routined.
- Your child's home screen doesn't show events. Your child finds them on the Calendar tab.
Frequently asked questions
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