Mom picks up

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Being lifted up happens in a second: the floor disappears, someone holds tight, and the body loses control of its own position. The visual support below breaks the lift into warning, grip and landing so the child can keep up.

A smiling mother lifts a small boy in a yellow shirt and red trousers, and he stretches his arms out.

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Mom lifts the boy up

A smiling mother lifts a small boy in a yellow shirt and red trousers, and he stretches his arms out.

Seen from the side, a mother holds a toddler boy in yellow pyjamas up in front of her while they look at each other.

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Mom holds the little boy up

Seen from the side, a mother holds a toddler boy in yellow pyjamas up in front of her while they look at each other.

A mom holds a child who has their arms outstretched.

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Mom holds child

A mom holds a child who has their arms outstretched.

A mom bends down to lift a child up from the floor.

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Mom lifts child

A mom bends down to lift a child up from the floor.

A mom holds and hugs a child from the side.

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Mom hugs child

A mom holds and hugs a child from the side.

About this visual support

The lift itself is short, but several things happen at once. The hips leave the floor, two hands clamp around the waist or under the arms, and the gaze suddenly sits a meter higher. For a child who needs a warning before body contact, that is a lot to take in at once, even when it is a parent doing the lifting.

The visual schedule lets you slow the sequence down before it happens. A first card shows mom reaching out her arms, a second the child placing their hands on her shoulders, a third the actual lift, and a fourth the landing onto her hip or into a hug. Knowing where their own hands go gives the child a small job during the lift, instead of just being carried.

A concrete tip: use the same count every time, for example three clear words before the feet leave the floor, so the lift stays predictable even when it is quick. If you want to keep the sequence for bedtime, bath time or lifting into a car seat, you can build it in Routined and try the app for 14 days at no cost.