Help with hair
Hair is one of the most sensitive areas on the body, and at the same time one of the few where someone else has to help. That combination charges the morning even when everyone means well. The pictures below show how many steps remain and when it is finished.
♀Help with hair
An adult hand combs a girl's long hair with a yellow comb.
♀Help with hair
An adult hand brushes the hair of a seated girl with a green brush.
About this visual support
Touching hair lands close to two things at once: pain and personal boundaries. A comb that catches pulls at the scalp, and the person holding it stands behind, out of view, so every tug arrives without warning. For children with clear sensory sensitivity the memory of yesterday's tangles is often enough to charge the whole moment.
Visual support makes the help measurable. Three pictures, wet it, brush from the bottom, tie it up, show that there is an end and where it is. Being able to count down the steps makes the discomfort easier to sit with, because how long it will last is no longer undefined.
A concrete tip is to always start from the bottom and hold the hair above the tangle. The pull then stays in the hand instead of in the scalp. In Routined the hair step can sit as its own item in the morning routine, and the app can be tried for fourteen days at no cost.
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