Mum's morning
An adult who has just woken up is not the same person as an adult after a cup of coffee, and that is most obvious to whoever is waiting. The child has questions and the answers come slowly. The pictures below make that short wait understandable rather than unfair.
♀Mum's morning
An adult holds a steaming mug and waves, with a sun and a speech bubble beside.
About this visual support
The first minutes of the morning have different lengths for different people in the same home. A child can be fully awake immediately, while an adult needs a few minutes before the brain answers at normal speed. Neither can be hurried, and the conflict arises where they meet: one wants to talk, the other wants to breathe.
Visual support makes the adult's start predictable. A picture of coffee, a clock showing how long the moment lasts and a picture of what you do afterwards turn waiting into a step in the routine rather than a reprimand. The child then knows contact is coming, just not right now.
A concrete tip is to prepare something the child can do independently at exactly that time. A jigsaw or a book works better than a screen, because it is easier to interrupt. In Routined the morning can sit as a routine where both have their own track, and the app can be tried for fourteen days at no cost.
Use this image in a schedule
Build your own visual schedule with this image and download it as a print-ready PDF. Completely free.
Take the visual supports with you
In Routined you build schedules from these pictures, add timers and voice instructions, and your child follows the day on their own.
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