Dinner cleanup

#dinner#tidying#dishwasher#plates#kitchen

The second the last bite goes down the body switches to off duty, and that is exactly when the least popular task of the day begins. The pictures below make what remains short and bounded instead of open-ended.

A smiling person holds a yellow plate with a fork in front of an open green dishwasher, with a laid table, a soap bottle and a waste basket nearby.♂

Person loading a plate into the dishwasher

A smiling person holds a yellow plate with a fork in front of an open green dishwasher, with a laid table, a soap bottle and a waste basket nearby.

About this visual support

The shift from meal to work is steep. During dinner everyone is seated, the conversation flows and the body has settled into rest. Getting straight up afterwards to carry, scrape and wipe is a change of gear that costs more than the work itself, especially for anyone who finds it hard to switch state on demand. The resistance therefore comes before the first plate, not during the job.

Visual support helps by making the task measurable before it starts. Four pictures mean four things, and four things is manageable. The child can also see their own share in relation to everyone else's, which keeps the fairness discussion shorter than it would otherwise be.

A concrete tip is to make the first picture the easiest one, carrying your own plate for instance. A low threshold gets the body moving, and the rest often follows on its own. In Routined the cleanup can sit directly after dinner with a couple of steps, and the app can be tried for fourteen days at no cost.

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In Routined you build schedules from these pictures, add timers and voice instructions, and your child follows the day on their own.

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