Psychology & Parenting

Articles on the challenges and joys of parenting. Our focus is on reducing parental stress, improving family communication, and helping you stay calm in challenging situations. Expertise and support for parents who want to grow in their role and find more balance.

Nightmares and Night Terrors: The Difference and How to Help
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Nightmares and Night Terrors: The Difference and How to Help

A child screaming and inconsolable in the night is frightening — but nightmares and night terrors are two very different things, and they need almost opposite responses. Here's how to tell them apart and what actually helps.

Meltdowns in Public: How to Stay Calm When Everyone Is Watching
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Meltdowns in Public: How to Stay Calm When Everyone Is Watching

A meltdown in a shop or at the beach, with strangers staring, is every parent’s dread. The strategies that work are almost the opposite of what onlookers expect.

Shared Custody Over the Summer Holiday: One Routine in Two Homes
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Shared Custody Over the Summer Holiday: One Routine in Two Homes

Long summer swaps between two homes can unsettle even an easy-going child. A shared routine that travels between homes gives them stability when everything else changes.

“I’m Bored”: Turning Summer Boredom Into Independence
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“I’m Bored”: Turning Summer Boredom Into Independence

By mid-July the “I’m bored” chorus starts. Boredom isn’t a problem to solve for your child — it’s a skill to build. Here’s how to step back without the day descending into chaos.

Sibling Fights: Why They Get Worse on School Breaks (and 5 Things That Actually Help)
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Sibling Fights: Why They Get Worse on School Breaks (and 5 Things That Actually Help)

Eleven hours together, no school, no schedule — and by 10 AM they're at each other's throats. Sibling conflict on school breaks isn't bad luck; it's the predictable result of lost structure and overlapping territory. Five fixes that move the needle.

Picky Eating and Food Refusal: When It's a Phase, When It's Something More
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Picky Eating and Food Refusal: When It's a Phase, When It's Something More

Most picky eating is a phase that ends. Some isn't — and the difference matters. A practical guide to telling them apart, the mealtime structure that helps both, and when to talk to a doctor about ARFID or sensory-based food avoidance.

Meltdowns in Children: What to Do in the Moment (and What to Do the Day After)
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Meltdowns in Children: What to Do in the Moment (and What to Do the Day After)

A meltdown isn't bad behavior — it's a brain that ran out of capacity. The three-phase framework most parents miss: prevent before, low-arousal approach during, repair and adjust the day after. Plus what to never say in the middle of one.

The After-School Crash: Why Your Child Falls Apart at Pickup (and the First 30 Minutes That Fix It)
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The After-School Crash: Why Your Child Falls Apart at Pickup (and the First 30 Minutes That Fix It)

Held it together all day at school — and explodes the moment you say hello at pickup. It has a name: restraint collapse. Why "the good kid at school" comes apart at home, and the 30-minute decompression protocol that prevents the daily disaster.

Mood check – Track Your Child's Wellbeing Through Daily Routines
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Mood check – Track Your Child's Wellbeing Through Daily Routines

How is your child really feeling before the evening routine starts? And how do they feel afterwards? With Humörkoll in Routined, you get answers – without having to ask.

When Parents Become Project Managers – and Why Children Shouldn’t Need One
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When Parents Become Project Managers – and Why Children Shouldn’t Need One

Many parents describe everyday life as a constant mental puzzle: remembering schedules, giving reminders, staying one step ahead, and anticipating emotional reactions. For parents of children with ADHD or autism, this is often even more pronounced. But what actually happens when a parent unintentionally becomes the project manager of a child’s entire day – and how can we step out of that role without losing structure?