Speak

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Speaking is two things at once: thinking and putting words to the thought before it changes. The pause while a word is being found feels far longer from the inside than from the outside. The pictures below give something to point at meanwhile.

A person stands in profile talking, with a blue speech bubble with three dots and a raised hand.

Speak

A person stands in profile talking, with a blue speech bubble with three dots and a raised hand.

About this visual support

Speech has no pause button. It is expected in real time, and if it is delayed somebody else fills in, changes the subject or answers on your behalf. For anyone who needs a few extra seconds to find the right word, that means the conversation has often moved on before the sentence is finished, and after enough such occasions it becomes easier to say nothing at all.

Visual support means communication does not have to compete with the pace. A picture holds the topic in place while the words are searched for, and the listener knows something is coming instead of reading the silence as an answer. The same pictures can be used at school and at home, so the expressions are familiar in both places.

A concrete tip is to wait five seconds longer than feels natural before filling in. That silence is often exactly what was needed. In Routined picture cards can be at hand in conversations where words tend to take time, and the app can be tried for fourteen days at no cost.

Use this image in a schedule

Build your own visual schedule with this image and download it as a print-ready PDF. Completely free.

Take the visual supports with you

In Routined you build schedules from these pictures, add timers and voice instructions, and your child follows the day on their own.

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